The man will come after you and have at least one show down with you.
Nothing hurts a man's ego more than his wife sleeping with another man.
A married woman will put her kids and family social commitments before you.
She will attend to her kids and be by her husband's side for social gatherings even if it means leaving you in a lurch.
Women are more likely to have no problem with marrying a guy with a child than guys.) A week or so ago, I asked the following question on my Facebook status: “How do you ladies feel about the fact that most guys won't marry a woman with another man's child? The real issue here is not the woman with children out of wedlock, the issue is the men who leave them after making them pregnant. We know what it’s like to be raised by a single mother.
” I did not anticipate the debate that would go on the page. Funny enough, this has nothing to do with the child in most instances. Then when it comes to the abortion issue, women are the ones who get the side-eye for going to abortion clinics when there were two parties involved. A lot of guys would consider marrying one because the woman won’t have “two” men in her life to deal with. Let us not do unto children what was done to some of us. Since women are the ones who are often left with the burden of responsibility, I think that women should be extra vigilant about who gets into her pants with no rubber.- Follow Khaya on Twitter.
Like mentioned earlier, the relationship will end sooner than later.
They will marry a guy with a child without much pause (yes, I am aware of the generalisation I am making. And we know how many of us can’t stand responsibility, even when we’ve planned for it. (To get an explanation on what "towning" is, please see this blog). It is about the father who still roams the streets. Many of us know what it’s like not to grow up with absent fathers.The upside of such a relationship is that you are with an experienced, matured and (most of the times) financially independent woman; the downside however can be depressing and emotionally draining.Read up to know about the Downside of Dating a Married Woman.24publishes all comments posted on articles provided that they adhere to our Comments Policy.
Should you wish to report a comment for editorial review, please do so by clicking the 'Report Comment' button to the right of each comment. She was married and people could get hurt — not least her eight-year-old son, Jake. We made each other feel special, and it was as though I’d been waiting for someone like her all my life.